In this century, relationships have really evolved.
From the normal boy meets girl, fall in love, date and get married has now changed to boy meeting a girl and wanting benefits of a relationship while still being friends.
Don’t get me wrong, we still have the normal relationship process, but friends with benefits are now the new norm in society.
No one will ever imagine finding themselves in such a situation, but life goes on. Also note that friends with benefits are not for the faint of heart, if you know it’s not for you, please stop before it becomes something else.
Anyway, if you understand these 3 rules you should never break in a “friends with benefits” relationship, you can rest easy.
Don’t catch feelings
I don’t know how else to emphasize it, catching feelings is like letting your food spoil in front of you.
Now think of this type of relationship as a b***y call, but instead of having it with a stranger, you are in a b***y call arrangement with your boyfriend.
Most of the time, friends with benefits turn out to be something romantic and if that happens with you, then you are in luck.
All text messages should be raunchy
If you and your friend with benefits have the energy to text normally then go with the flow, if not then the only messages should include s-e-x-ual content and where you are meeting.
This way you won’t mistake niceness for love.
Never get jealous
No matter how good the s*x is, never feel entitled to it. Go to other people if you feel that exclusivity has no place in such an arrangement.
He/she is not yours, so don’t put all your eggs in that basket. Also, play it safe.